Kinky from the Start

Robert has been actively kinky since his teenage years. His primary kink, bondage, was inspired by the 60's TV show, The Wild Wild West, often featuring a shirtless Robert Conrad, helplessly restrained and taunted by one villain or another.

A Decade in Porn

At age 35, Robert performed in his first adult film. It was a BDSM scene for Brush Creek Media. Soon after, he became ZEUS Studios' "1999 ZEUSboy," appearing in a number of their BDSM films. He went on to perform in approximately 50 mainstream sex films, for companies including Raging Stallion, Falcon, Hot House, Catalina, and others. In addition to the film work, he was featured in magazines such as Unzipped, Honcho, Bound and Gagged, and Men.


Robert received a GayVN nomination (newcomer of the year), as well as a not so ironically earned Grabby Award for a masturbation scene in the Sports and Recreation film, Leather Trade Solos. Robert coined the term "soloflexible" to describe his ongoing movement between solosexuality and sex with other men. He was a featured performer at the 2009 Masturbate-a-thon in San Francisco, masturbating into his own mouth in front of a live audience of men and women. The event was sponsored by the Center for Sex and Culture. His tutorial video, Get Verbal, was featured in season 2 of BateWorld's Bator Training Series. He occasionally performs on the cam site Chaturbate as "Wolf_Dad."

Podcast Host

Robert is host of the podcast Sexual Heroes, with interviews that promise to inform, entertain, and inspire listeners to embrace their sexuality. Many of the episodes feature guests in the "bate" (masturbation) and leather/BDSM communities. In one episode (S1E4), he shares his own personal sexual journey with a former high school classmate. The show has a 5 star rating on Apple Podcasts.


Robert has a master's in education (instructional design and technology) and is the "Headmaster" of Endorphin High - School of BDSM . The purpose of his virtual school is to facilitate the transfer of skills and knowledge from the kink-informed to the kink curious. It offers a "curriculum" for those new to BDSM, a library with links to resources in a variety of formats, a map of educational events and opportunities around the world, and an Instructor Certification Course for kink subject matter experts. The course has four modules, each with a 60-90 minute live, highly interactive, virtual class.

Current Events

Today, Robert lives in Palm Springs, California with his husband (together almost 20 years) and two rescue pups. He has his own business as an instructional designer and trainer, and also donates his time and professional skill to a local organization serving the LGBTQIA+ community.

Robert will be leading a breakout session at CLAW Leather Getaway in Los Angeles this November 2022. The session, Engage Your Audience, is specifically for kink educators. Participants will learn to seize six often missed opportunities to engage an audience.

Updated 8/11/2022